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A New Playbook For Raising Boys

A colorful illustration with a bright purple background and flowing ribbon-like shapes in pink, teal, and coral. At the center, a black silhouette of a woman with a ponytail is lifting a light blue silhouette of a baby into the air. Above them, bold green text with a white outline reads “Embodied.”
Charnel Hunter

One writer's concerns about raising her three sons in the post-Me Too landscape led her on a journey to learn more about  challenges boys and young men face in the U.S. — and how to parent better.

When the #MeToo movement exploded in 2017, writer Ruth Whippman — who was nearly nine months pregnant with her third son — experienced a profound conflict. As a feminist, she celebrated the movement; as a mother, she worried: How am I gonna raise these boys to be good if it seems like male misconduct and bad behavior is the norm?

This tension launched Ruth on a quest to understand modern American boyhood and what's not working. She outlines what she learned in her book “BoyMom: Reimagining Boyhood in the Age of Impossible Masculinity.”

Ruth and her husband Neil Levine joinhost Anita Rao to talk about their experience putting Ruth’s research into practice, how they’re working to give their sons the emotional tools to thrive in a changing world and what’s at stake if we don’t shift our approach to raising boys.

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Kaia Findlay is the lead producer of Embodied, WUNC's weekly podcast and radio show about sex, relationships and health. Kaia first joined the WUNC team in 2020 as a producer for The State of Things.
Anita Rao is an award-winning journalist, host, creator, and executive editor of "Embodied," a weekly radio show and podcast about sex, relationships & health.
Amanda Magnus is the executive producer of Embodied, a weekly radio show and podcast about sex, relationships and health. She has also worked on other WUNC shows including Tested and CREEP.